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Word of the Month
December

COMPASSION: Understanding the needs and the feelings of others; caring about other people.
Vs. Cold-hearted, uncaring, unconcerned with the feelings or needs of others
EspanÕl -
compassion

**Please review the following suggestions for content and appropriateness to your child and/or student/s**

Suggested Reading:
The Gift (Aliana Broadmann)
The Golden Deer (Margaret Hodges)
The Happy Prince (Oscar Wilde)
Everyone Knows What a Dragon Looks Like (Jay Williams)
The Little Match Girl (Hans Christian Andersen)
Clancy's Coat (Eve Bunting)
Damon and Pythias
The Sailor Who Captured the Sea (Deborah Lattimore)
Charlotte's Web (E.B. White)
The Little Princess (Frances Hodgson Burnett)
The Story of Ruby Bridges (Robert Coles)
The House of Sixty Fathers (Meinder DeJong)
The Hundred Dresses (Eleanor Estes)
The Giant (Moricai Gerstein)
The Legend of King Arthur (Robert Lister)
The Great Gilly Hopkins (Katherine Paterson)
The Taste of Blackberries (Doris Smith)
Sour Land (William Armstrong)
Sounder (William Armstrong)
The Summer of Swans (Betsy Byars)
Walk Two Moons (Sharon Creech)
The Whipping Boy (Sid Fleischman)
The Gift of the Magi (Henry O)
The Hero and the Crown (Robin McKinley)
Taktala (Margaret Shaw-MacKinnon)
The Witch of Blackbird Pond (Elizabeth Speare)
Crazy Lady! (Jane Leslie Conly)
The Secret Garden (Frances H. Burnett)
Eleanor Roosevelt: A Life of Discovery (Russell Freedman)
Summer of My German Soldier (Bette Greene)
Great Uncle Albert Frogets (Ben Schechter)
Frog and Toad Are Friends (Arnold Lobel)
Dogger (Shirely Hughes)
The Good Samaritan
Sassafras
When the Sun Rose
The Giving Tree
Why the Chimes Rang (Raymond, Alden)
Nothing But the Truth (Avi)
A Brother for the Orphelines (Natalie Carlson)
My Brother Steve (Clymer)
Molly's Pilgrim (M. Cohen)
The Cabin Faced West (Jean Fritz)
A Very Important Day (Maggie R. Herold)
The Contests at Cowlick (Richard Kennedy)
The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe (C.S. Lewis)
Coming to America (Betsy Maestro)
This Farm is a Mess (Leslie McGuire)
Mrs. Frisby and the Rats of NIMH (Robert O'Brian)
Soup and Me (Robert N. Peck)
Kid Power (Susan Pfeffer)
The Trumpet of the Swan (E.B. White)
The Velveteen Rabbit (Margery Williams)
How Many Days to America: A Thanksgiving Story (Eve Bunting)
The Queen's Necklace: A Swedish Folktale (Jane Langton)
Mufaro's Beautiful Daughters (John Steptoe)
The Friend, Obadiah (Brinton Turkle)
The Selfish Giant (Oscar Wilde)
Wuthering Heights (Emily Bronte)
A Tale of Two Cities (Charles Dickens)
Hope Leslie (Catharine Maria Sedgwick)

Suggested Films:
Bambi
rated G
Babe
rated G
The Wizard o
f Oz rated G
Simon Birch
rated PG
To Kill a Mockingbird not rated
Remember the Titans rated PG-13


Suggested Songs:

Lean on Me
You’ve Got a Friend
I’ll Be There

Bridge Over Troubled Waters


Family Activity:

  • Talk with your children about how we accept and develop understanding of people with disabilities. Teach your children how to help them without insulting them.

  • When a member of the family is sick, everyone should contribute to caring for the sick family member.

  • Encourage your children to talk to you about how they feel about their lives and how they are treated.

Class Activity:

  • Have students perform a skit showing people caring for a sick animal.

  • When a student is sick for several days, have the class write get-well soon cards to the sick student and mail them to the student’s home.

  • Send get-well soon cards to patients in a local hospital.

High School Activity:

  • Many Americans face socio-disabilities such as poverty, abuse, and discrimination, while trying to live happy, productive lives. What, if anything, should the government do to help them in overcoming these barriers? What is the role of individuals in helping themselves and others overcome these barriers?

Quotes:

If we just worry about the big picture, we are powerless. So my secret is to start right away doing whatever little work I can do. I try to give joy to one person in the morning, and remove the suffering of one person in the afternoon. . . . That is the secret. Start right now.
---Sister Chän Khöng

Our prime purpose in this life is to help others. And if you can’t help them, at least don’t hurt them.
---The Dalai Lama

A human being is a part of a whole, called by us universe, a part limited in time and space. He experiences himself, his thoughts and feelings as something separated from the rest... a kind of optical delusion of his consciousness. This delusion is a kind of prison for us, restricting us to our personal desires and to affection for a few persons nearest to us. Our task must be to free ourselves from this prison by widening our circle of compassion to embrace all living creatures and the whole of nature in its beauty.
---Albert Einstein

Three things in human life are important: The first is to be kind. The second is to be kind. And the third is to be kind.
---Henry James

There is nothing stronger in the world than gentleness.
---Han Suyin

Kindness is tenderness. Kindness is love, but perhaps greater than love. Kindness is good will. Kindness says, "I want you to be happy."
---Randolph Ray

Compliments echo through the valley but eventually escape, so must be spoken again. Insults are forever trapped and bear no repeating.
---Ray Messer Jr

We must be the change we wish to see in the world.
---Mahatma Gandhi

What wound did ever heal but by degrees?
---William Shakespeare

I believe… that every human mind feels pleasure in doing good to another.
---Thomas Jefferson

The smallest good deed is better than the grandest good intention.
---Duguet

When life seems just a dreary grind; and things seem fated to annoy; say something nice to someone else and watch the world light up with joy.
---Unknown

Appreciative words are the most powerful force for good on earth.
---George W. Crane

A kind heart is a fountain of gladness, making everything in its vicinity freshen into smiles.
---Washington Irving

We are here on earth to do good to others. What the others are here for, I do not know.
---W. H. Auden

Have a heart that never hardens, a temper that never tires, a touch that never hurts.
---Charles Dickens

What we are doing is just a drop in the ocean. But if that drop was not in the ocean, I think the ocean would be less because of that missing drop. I do not agree with the big way of doing things.
---Mother Teresa

Kind words can be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless.
---Mother Teresa

No act of kindness, no matter how small, is ever wasted.
---Aesop

If you have not often felt the joy of doing a kind act, you have neglected much, and most of all yourself.
---A. Neilen

I have no desire to move mountains, construct monuments, or leave behind in my wake material evidence of my existence. But in the final recollection, if the essence of my being has caused a smile to have appeared upon your face or a touch of joy within your heart, then in living, I have made my mark.
---Thomas L. Odem Jr.

You have it easily in your power to increase the sum total of this world's happiness now. How? By giving a few words of sincere appreciation to someone who is lonely or discouraged. Perhaps you will forget tomorrow the kind words you say today, but the recipient may cherish them over a lifetime.
---Dale Carnegie

Note how good you feel after you have encouraged someone else. No other argument is necessary to suggest that never miss the opportunity to give encouragement.
---George Adams

A tree is known by its fruit; a man by his deeds. A good deed is never lost; he who sows courtesy reaps friendship, and he who plants kindness gathers love.
---Basil

If we all tried to make other people's paths easy, our own feet would have a smooth even place to walk on.
---Myrtle Reed

Kindness is a language which the deaf can hear and the blind can see.
---Mark Twain

It is one of the most beautiful compensations of this life that no man can sincerely try to help another without helping himself.
---Ralph Waldo Emerson

Like the light in the dark of dismal night, let your self stand out as glowing, warm, and welcome.
---Validivar

Flatter me, and I may not believe you. Criticize me, and I may not like you. Ignore me, and I may not forgive you. Encourage me, and I may not forget you.
---William Arthur

How wonderful it is that nobody need wait a single moment before starting to improve the world.
---Anne Frank

A smile is the light in your window that tells others that there is a caring, sharing person inside.
---Denis Waitley

The hands that help are better far than the lips that pray.
---Robert G. Ingersoll

What sunshine is to flowers, smiles are to humanity. These are but trifles, to be sure; but, scattered along life's pathway, the good they do is inconceivable.
---Joseph Addison

There are two ways of spreading light; to be the candle or the mirror that receives it.
---Edith Wharton

Fragrance always stays in the hand that gives the rose.
---Hada Bejar

Kindness is never wasted. If it has no effect on the recipient, at least it benefits the bestower.
---S. H. Simmons

No one is useless in this world who lightens the burden of it for anyone else.
---Charles Dickens

Those who give you a serpent when you ask for a fish, may have nothing but serpents to give. It is then generosity on their part.
---Kahlil Gibran

Generosity is giving more than you can, and pride is taking less than you need.
---Kahlil Gibran

There is a destiny that makes us brothers,
No one goes his way alone;
All that we send into the lives of others,
Comes back into our own.
---Edwin Markham

He who wants to do good knocks at the gate: he who loves finds the door open.
---Rabrindranath Tagore

Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around.
---Leo Buscaglia

We cannot tell the precise moment when friendship is formed. As in filling a vessel drop by drop, there is at last a drop which makes it run over. So in a series of acts of kindness there is, at last, one which makes the heart run over.
---James Boswell

The kindness of some is too much like the echo, returning the counterpart of what it receives, not more, and sometimes less.
---George Bowers

Wise sayings often fall on barren ground; but a kind word is never thrown away.
---Arthur Helps

Constant kindness can accomplish much. As the sun makes ice melt, kindness causes misunderstanding, mistrust, and hostility to evaporate.
---Albert Schweitzer

Nothing is ever lost by courtesy. It is the cheapest of the pleasures; costs nothing and conveys much. It pleases him who gives and him who receives, and thus, like mercy, it is twice blessed.
---Erastus Wiman

When the milk of human kindness turns sour, it is a singularly unpalatable draught.
---Agnes Repplier

Small kindnesses, small courtesies, small considerations, habitually practiced, give a greater charm to the character than the display of great talents and accomplishments.
---M.A. Kelty

How frequently are the honesty and integrity of a man disposed of by a smile or shrug! How many good and generous actions have been sunk into oblivion by a distrustful look, or stamped with the imputation of bad motives, by a mysterious and seasonable whisper!
---Lawrence Sterne

The courtesies of a small and trivial character are the ones which strike deepest to the grateful and appreciating heart.
---Henry Clay

I have endured a great deal of ridicule without much malice, and have received a great deal of kindness not quite free from ridicule.
---Abraham Lincoln

It's the little things we do and say
that mean so much as we go our way.
One kindly deed can lift a load,
from weary shoulders on the road.
---Willa Hoey

How far that little candle throws his beam!
So shines a good deed in a weary world.
---William Shakespeare

It's not true that nice guys finish last. Nice guys are winners before the game even starts.
---Addison Walker

Tart words make no friends; a spoonful of honey will catch more flies than a gallon of vinegar.
---Benjamin Franklin

When you handle yourself, use your head; when you handle others, use your heart.
---Donna Reed

Kindness in words creates confidence.
Kindness in thinking creates profoundness.
Kindness in giving creates love.
---Lao-Tzu

Goodness is the only investment which never fails.
---Henry David Thoreau

There is no exercise better for the heart than reaching down and lifting people up.
---John Andrew Holmes

So many gods, so many creeds,
So many paths that wind and wind,
While just the art of being kind
Is all the sad world needs.
---Ella Wheeler Wilcox

Find the seed at the bottom of your heart and bring forth a flower.
---Shigenori Kameoka

Tenderness and kindness are not signs of weakness and despair, but manifestations of strength and resolutions.
---Kahlil Gibran

 

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